A Square Peg In A Round Hole

square peg in a round hole

If you are a square peg trying to fit into a round hole, you are not the problem. The hole is.
Quit trying to fit in.
That’s a FRANK Thought!!!
Have you EVER had the feeling that you did not “belong”? I have had that feeling several times. It is not a good feeling at all. You’re male but, men don’t like you. You’re female and you hate women. You’re African American but, not enough. You’re Caucasian but, not enough. You’re Christian but, still unworthy. You’re a great employee but, too great.
The problem with you is that you are a non-conformist. You don’t like to play by the rules. You walk at your own pace and color outside of the lines. You have a way about you that both attracts and repels at the same time. It is a very difficult and unique situation to be in. What makes matters worse, is that, you are always trying to fit in where you want to but, DON’T belong. You are a square peg trying to fit into a round hole. IT WON”T WORK!
Somewhere in the back of your square peg mind, you feel the need to be accepted by the holes. You feel that if they would just accept you everything would be okay. The problem with that thinking is that you are a square for a reason and even if the holes accept you – you would be so uncomfortable that you could not, would not, and SHOULD not stay.
You have to come to the realization that you and your “squareness” is okay. You are okay just the way you are.
That’s a FRANK Thought!!!
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